Who has the last say?
It is consequential to draw the line between your Event-planner/Coordinator, your immediate family and yourself...
Just like any random event carried out by a professional, leading up to the day of, the planner & client normally meet to go over every micro-detail of the event, even decorations – to finalize the file.
On the day of the event, during the set-up, no one other than the professionals in charge of the event should be on-scene to ensure the beauty and success of the celebration. It is highly recommended to have every detail written for both the client & planner to avoid last-minute changes according to their likes or dislikes, by persons who did not sign any contract nor were delegated for supervision.
Trust in the profesional hired is absolutely needed through his or her expertise & creativity.